Tuesday, 29 June 2010


...has turned upside down.  I have unexpectedly found myself in a dark place.  It has left me stranded in limbo with no control of which way to turn. 

Hoping and praying this is a temporary glitch and I will be back as soon as I can function properly.


  1. What a sad post. Is there anything we can help with?

    Do hang on in there. Life does have a habit of throwing curved balls.

    Hugs, Hx

  2. No matter what it is,just keep going,don't let bad things stop you-otherwise won't be able to get out. Don't let The bad thing control you.
    Keep going and hope to see you soon.

  3. We are all here for you,praying for you to have strength to rise above your troubles,remember God does not give us anything we cannot handle and that each time we hit the bottom the only way is up and we rise stronger,tougher and wiser than when we went down to the depths of despair. You are a beautiful soul and blessings will abound you,rise up sweetie and we are all here for you to help you stand strong. Carole

  4. It's amazing how life does this to us at times. Just remember that we are all here to listen if you need a sounding board, and offer any help advice should you need any. Just come back when you are ready and able...we will be here x

  5. Hey honey, you've unfortunately just got to battle on through until you can feel strong again. The most important thing is to stay in control of your emotions and try so very hard to prevent yourself from wallowing in the depths of despair,it can be very hard to pull yourself from that awful place. Please know that we are all here as, when and if you need us. {{Big Hugs}} Justine xx

  6. As CraftySmiles says, keep going no matter what. Never give up. I have been through many dark times in my life and although you cannot imagine a way out at times or imagine life getting better, you somehow get through it. It can feel very overwhelming when you feel you are not in control of a situation. After the initial shock of finding yourself in that situation, try and workout a plan of action if you can. Rely on friends or family for moral support & bloggers so that you don't feel all alone in this. I wish you courage and strength.
    Take care
    Isabelle x
    Whatever the cause of your

  7. I'm so sorry to hear you are going through such a dark, difficult time. I wanted you to know I was thinking about you, and sending support through the internet ether. Em xxx

  8. Although it may not seem like it now the light will come back into your life, it will take time but you will be stronger because of what you experience. I was in a very dark place for what seemed like a long time but now I see more sunshine every day.

    If you need me I'm here.

    Love and prayers

    Aliso xxxx

  9. Hope you feel brighter soon *big hugs* xx

  10. Deborah I was so suprised to see this I am so sorry you are in this place right now. If you need help or to talk please get in touch, I will be thinking of you.
    Kandi x

  11. Somedays are sunny - some are cloudy- the sun will shine for you again soon...just be gentle to yourself until then....
    Warm Wishes,
    Cally x

  12. I really feel for you, this is a really heart-felt post. We can't control everything that life throws at us, sometimes we just have to ride it out. Hoping you're in a good place before long. All the best, love Sharon x

  13. Poor honey - in my experience, when things get very, very dark it can be best to let the darkness wash over you and know that just recognising the dark times is a step in the right direction. You will come out of the other side but perhaps you are in that place for a reason - time to take a little time out and work through all those black thoughts and feelings. Life it full of knocks and peppered with cliches but truly, every cloud really does have a silver lining - sometimes it just takes a while to see it. Take care, be kind and gentle to yourself and hope to see your bright and lovely self again soon xxxx

  14. Hello hunny....
    I am so sorry to hear you feel the way you do right now.
    Last year was my worst ever year and I had soooo many dark times....my heart goes out to you my lovely.
    If you feel like an email please feel free anytime...karen_tibbett@yahoo.co.uk
    I don't want to bombard you so will leave you to choose if and when to say hello...

    Take time out for yourself my friend to see the beauty and love all around you...
    Much love and ((hugs))
    Karen x x x

  15. Oh I am so sorry you are going through this - as you haven't said it's a person, I am guessing its an illness that has brought you to this dark place? please be strong and whatever your calling have faith and trust in God - he only puts on us what we can cope with - he knows our limits. I hope you will be ok soon and come out the other side a stronger, braver person, look for happiness in every small thing, blessings to you - Betty xxx

  16. Here is a big hug {{{HUG}}}, I hope you see the light soon darling! I have bipolar disorder and really feel for you - xxxx

  17. My heart is aching for you - there were many times in my darkness that I was convinced the light was only that of the oncoming train and I wished it to come closer - but once that darkness blew over - what an amazing place to be :)
    My C's for beating darkness:
    Cuddles, Coffee, Cyber Friends, Cafes, Chats, Conversation, Chocolate .. .. ..
    Cat xxx

  18. Deborah - lots and lots of supportive comments for you to read and take comfort and heart in whilst dealing with your sadness. I hope you feel better very soon. I`ve never sent cyber-hugs before but I`ve just recently had some from the most amazing Ladies of Blogland sent to me and they really meant a lot....so here`s yours from me...tons and tons of them:)

  19. Hello My lovely, I have tried to e-mail you about your address so I can send your swap parcel, might cheer you up. If your not up to swapping don't worry. I hope whatever is worrying you will soon pass.xxx

  20. Hi Deborah - I had a feeling something was wrong. It can be a very lonely place in the darkness - but you can only step into the light when you are ready. It seams so many of us here suffer one way or another - and people even through cyber space can offer support.

    Reiki Healing on it's way to you chuck



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